I messed up really bad, now i don't know what to do for the best. any advice?

a while back me and my boyfriend broke up, but we stayed friends, and it actually worked out ok, because we both wanted that. the plan was that we were gonna get back together once we got some stuff sorted out (it was really just an impossible situation that kinda put a stop to the relationship), so the plan was to stay friends until we were both in a situation where we could be together.





the being friends thing was going fine, but he told me that he was still in love with me, i meant everything to him, etc etc, and he really meant it, it wasn't like a joke or a drunken thing or anything, he really is in love with me still, even though we broke up. he told me that, and then he asked me what i thought, like how did i feel about the situation, and i just said that i didn't know. and we've hardly spoken since, obviously i know why, hes mad at me, and i cant blame him, he told me how he felt, which would have been a big deal for him, and all i could say was that i didn't know. thing is i think i do love him, i was just too afraid to tell him. where do i go from here? he isn't talking to me, should i make the first move here, or should i give him some time? im so confused and i miss him. any advice on what i can do to make this better? i know i messed up, but all i can do is try to fix this. any help would be good.I messed up really bad, now i don't know what to do for the best. any advice?
well, like you said, he poured his heart out to you, and all you said was i don't now. he wont let that go, and he wont come to you to get another response from you. you need to clear things up with him. right now, he is in the mindset that you have no interest in him like that anymore, so if you feel otherwise, you need to tell him. he cannot read your mind, unfortunately none of them can do that, so you need to talk to him. nothing will happen until you do.I messed up really bad, now i don't know what to do for the best. any advice?
Like you said fix it. You call him justt to talk on a regular bases and you should get closer and hint that you are afraid of telling someone that you love him. See what happens
Just go talkl to him n tell him how dumb u were and u were just to shy to tell him how u feel n ur sorry he'll proably forgive u after all he loves u :D
Honestly, you already hurt him a bit, so now whatever you say, can't hurt as much as that. Tell him the truth with a note or something. Tell him the reason why you said you didn't know. If he really does love you he would understand why, similar to why you can't blame him for being mad. The only reason why he may not be talking to you is cause he doesn't know how to face you. It's your turn to make the move.
i think you need to give him some time, but not too much time because he might find someone else in the mean time.


but just go to his house and talk to him even though he doesn't want to talk and then explain yourself and apologize.





but before you do any of that, make sure in your heart that you love him. don't spill the beans if you don't mean it.
ok it's time to trick him. If you really do love him, I mean really, really love him.


1. Make a fantastic Dinner.


2. Lite candles.


3. 911 him, tell him you have an emergency and really needs his help.


If he loves you like he says, he'll show up panicked. Rush him into the house, give him a kiss, and show him the table. A I'm sorry card wouldn't hurt either.