Can some one give me advice on how to help my BEST Friend!!!?

See, my bestfriend thinks she's really fat only shes really muscular cuz she does like five sports, well shes trying to go bulimic and she shoved her finger down her throat so far that she pulled somthing and havnt felt good ever since!HELP!Can some one give me advice on how to help my BEST Friend!!!?
Take her to the doctors. It may be hard for her, and it may make her feel uncomfortable, but if she is really your best friend, you'll do this for her. Go, now.Can some one give me advice on how to help my BEST Friend!!!?
I Am The Same As Your Friend


But All You Gotta Do Is Eat Healthy And Keep Active


If You Are Not Massive And Overweight Then Who Cares Everyone Has A Different Build
Either contact a bulimic group get information off them you can share sensitively with your friend to effectively help her in this particular situation will be plenty on internet maybe a local group similar people in same circumstances in past can encourage and support her with awkward moment in her life thank you lol take care both of you thing she pulled go with her if necessary to the doctor to check over
Tell her she if not fat..... If not, tell her I said she is beautiful.... lol, A girl has a sensative mind... i'm a guy and I know that... well I guess you know that too lol. Show her picks of Bulimic people, that might scare her into not throwing up! Go find a nice guy for her, and get her a blind date... tell the guy to make her feel good all night, by saying she is beautiful.... you know.... the things that girls like to hear lol. She is beautiful no matter what! If she is fat, skinny, musclar... God made her that way...
Tell her you'll go to the doctor with her. Be as calm and assuring as you can. She definitely needs help.
Tell her you like the way she is but if she doesn't agree tell her to wuit some sports and tell her she's muscular. If that doesn't work just tell to stop fretting and she's pretty and you wouldn't trade her for anything. Because you like the way she is.
you do no that being bullimic is very serious!!! by the sound of it you're friend nos shes in trouble tell a parent about it!!! or get help before its too late!! it will make you feel alot better also!! shes counting on you to make things right and she'll be gratefull to you in the futre!!! it is even worse that she pulled something and could be very dangouruos!!! alot of teenages have this problem and its very serious!!! good luck!!!! xxxxxxxx
First I would say tell her parents or get her to a doctor just because she hasn't felt good ever since and something might be wrong. But I have friends who have gone through eating disorders too, and the best thing to do is instead of nagging on them and trying to tell them how to eat and be healthy, just try telling them that they are the only people that can make themselves look happy. And they need to see on their own terms that they are actually fine with their body, but nobody can really convince them that, except themselves. So I would just try saying nice things like, ';you look really nice today'; or just tiny compliments that at the end of the day, mean a lot.


Hopefully she will get through this, because I hate hearing about eating disorders, but unfortunately it happens to a lot of us. Another thing is that if she is always comparing herself to celebrity bodies, than I would try getting her away from those trashy magazines, because all they do is brainwash you on how you are ';supposed to look.';


My best wishes to your friend.
Tell her how you feel about her doing that. Then, take her to the doctors to see what she pulled and if it's going to hurt her or make her sicker. I hope she gets better. Byee.
tell her that is very bad!!


dont do it!!!


tell her if she thinks she fat she shoud just eaat healthy and exsive more often if she doent fell good tell her to see a doctor asap!!
if she is you true best friend then tell her parents,and take her to the doctor.she will thank you for this in time.well done for asking.
you should try being nice to her telling her she's beautiful the way she is and if she goes bulimic she will look like a nicole richie. and no one wants that! and ask her ';what ever her name may be, how can you be fat when you do 5 sports? it's called MUSCLE.'; and if she still does not get it. i'm sorry but you should try a different way. the second way would probably to be mean. like tell her are you kidding me? you were skinny and now you've gone bulimic?!?! i don't need a friend who is gonna walk around looking like a nicole richie all unhealthy and disgusting. i truly understand it is mean but some people respond better to mean then to nice. their mind jumps back to its feet after being yelled at probably by shock if you are a nice girl. which you probably are, trying to help your friend. =] i know this because my friend has a problem about this ';fat'; nonsense. well good luck!
you do need to encourage her to get help, however DO NOT betreay her trust by going over her head. If you do tell her parents you need to first tell her what you are going to do and offer her support etc. for her to do it herself. Basically she still needs to feel she's in control so don't do anything without asking her first, and make it clear to her u have her best interests at heart.





Also do keep telling her that she is not fat and that she is beautiful, and get people to back u up.
tell her shes not fat ... she probably wont believe you but its worth a try ... if not look up blumic peoples stories on google and show them to her... i was starting to have trouble with eating but when i read some other peoples stories and learnt about side affects etc it shocked me out into eating properly again