Thursday, December 31, 2009

ADvice! My best friend for a year hates my new friend what do i do?

Me %26amp;%26amp; my friend[sherrie] for a year have been friends and having been going great. my new friend [brette] and i are closer than sherrie and i. And Sherrie doesnt like Brette. What do i do? i dont want to loose either as a friend. I love them both and they are both my best friends.ADvice! My best friend for a year hates my new friend what do i do?
i had that problem b4 but i was like 7...you make them be friends! and if that doesnt work all 3 of u go out somewhere they would have to talk to each other at some pointADvice! My best friend for a year hates my new friend what do i do?
first of all is brette a girl (if not sry brette) but neways girls love to be the center of attention....and sherries been ur friend for wat a year and now all of a sudden some new kid comes in and steals her place (gets more attention) its like given baby candy and then jus takin it away wat do they do they throw a friggin fit lol but its not fair to sherrie if u wanna keep both friendships ur gonna have to equal out the time u spend w/them cuz if it stays this way sherrie is gona feel more and more distant and feel so left out she'll find it point less 2 continue......and if brette is a girl then then ur screwed no matter wat u might say bout the new girl (if not girl sryy!) sherrie will still feel threatened and 2 u she may seem ok bout it but in her head she wont she jus doesnt wanna loose a friend like you so she's jealous bout it but if u dont wanna loose sherrie u need to manage ur time better ok hope i helped if no SRY! 2dles!
Well you should tell Sherrie to get over it. Ok yes you've been friends forever or w/e, but you know that old saying about new friends are silver but the old are gold or something like that. That applies here. You can be friends with both Sherrie %26amp;%26amp; Brette but that doesn't mean they have to be friends with each other so they should both just focus on being friends with you.


%26lt;3 T a t e r r
Hey sweetie my name is Tori and look, I have been in tAhat situation before, it's tuph i know. Look get them Both together and ALL of you hang out, trust me... start out by saying.... ';Hey who here would date _____'; and that will get you all talking! =) Im 14 and i know how mean kids can be. Please trust me, when a group of girls get together it's just natural for all of you to start talking!! I know this because Im a Girl. Ok I know this will work! Please thank you


Love Tori Rose
Well just dont talk about Brette around Sherrie. Dont make Brette sound like a big deal to you. Maybe even try getting them to be friends too. %26amp;%26amp; when you all hang out together dont hang out with Brette to much. Tell Sherrie that you dont like Brette more and that you want to be friends with both of them =]] Goodluck =]]
Well my advise to you is to find something that you all enjoy doing and all of you guys just hang out and have fun. Maybe your friend is upset that you and Brette are doing things and leaving her out. Just tell each of them good things about the other and try to get them to be friends as well.
I used to have the same problem, but then my two friends that hated eachother became Bffs. It will take time for your getting used to you making new friends, but she will have to deal with it, She does know she doesn't own your friendship.
dont try to tie the two friendship together. they are two different people and two different friendships. If they're both your friends then should understand your prospective. let them know how much you love them and how much the friendship means to you.
convince ur other frined dat shes kool n all %26amp; have em both overrrrr. just dont ditch ur old friend but keepp ur new 1.

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