Its senior year of high school, and i have a major crush on my best friend; advice!?

Its pathetic and cliche, I know, but see, I have been best friends with this guy for about 5 years now- since 8th grade. And during freshman year, i developed a huge crush on his personality, but never acted upon it because i treasured our friendship too much and did not want to ruin it in any way. So the crush faded sophomore and junior year, but now its senior year, and the crush is back- and this time, its his looks AND personality- this kiddo has gotten hot over the years! haha. anyway, i still don't want to mess with our friendship, but i just cant help crushing on him :( what should i do? A further dilemma is whats going to happen when we graduate: I am going to Chicago and he is going to NYU for college.... if we date, leaving is only going to be that much harder :(Its senior year of high school, and i have a major crush on my best friend; advice!?
hmm...how's his behavior around you and other girls in comparison?


How is his body position when he's with just you and with other ppl, mainly other girls?





Does he constantly or conspicuously sneak glances at you when he's talking to others? What's his personality like when he's with you and in comparison with others?





lol, sorry, I need a little more backup information to accurately confirm what you can do in your position. XD





BUT since, this is your last year with him, I believe its best to tell him your feelings because remember, life is just too short and you might not get a second chance. Even if he doesnt see you in that way, then you wont be wondering for months or years- ';What if';.... It might hurt but time and distance will help heal you, but then again...if he likes you in that way...then it will also be a struggle because the distance that both of you will have in seeing each other.... but at least your heart will be at ease with either of the 2 possibilities.





I wish you the utmost luck. =]Its senior year of high school, and i have a major crush on my best friend; advice!?
You won't like this advice but forget about a long distance relationship they just don't work. Besides he will have alot of college chicks at his school to date. So if you think he will be faithful just forget it my dear.





If after college you two can still hook up be friends (and neither of you have no real heavy relationship with someone else) then it was meant to be.


Good Luck
Okay... Here is what you have to do.. You have to find the will within you and just do it. You never know what the future will hold. And this may be the last time you have the chance to go out with him before you graduate. So you can go through the rest of the year being friends, bf and gf, or whatever happens before you graduate. Just do what your heart tells you!





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Oh my gosh, your story sounds too cute! :)





I say go for it. Tell him now before senior year is gone and you regret it. Y'all have been friends for a while so this shouldn't mess up anything if for some reason he doesn't feel the same way.





Good luck girl and congrats on almost graduating! :)
tell him you like him
i say, go for it. you dont want to regret it. just start flirting a little bit, and if he responds, ask him to hang out just u two..
Tell him you want to be more than friends. Good luck!
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p.s. U. of Chicago (amazing school)





NYU (peace of crap for people that were too dumb to get into real colleges)
just tell him
tell him
if u r best friends it can't be to hard to ask him
Well you are right about messing up the friendship that you both have, but it's always good to let your true feelings out. You might not know, maybe he enjoys being around you. And you said that you both are going to different schools, and it is truly going to be harder to move on, but having the best years with him in high school is a girl's dream. Imma go straight to the point. If you both are very close friends, get eachothers numbers, or aim any way of communication. and in college, if you get a new pc, you can talk to him 7/11. Meet up with him on your spare time, and maybe things cud go from there.
I suggest just staying friends. You can have some fun as a senior, but if you really think it's going to lead to a serious relationship then don't put yourself in that situation. It's always hard to separate and it won't be worth it.





A couple of years ago my best friend and I were in the same situation, with two other guys, when we knew we were leaving. My best friend decided to just stay friends with her crush, but I decided to go for it. In the end, she was a lot better off. She was so much happier and she's stayed in contact with her guy, they're really good friends. I suffered because of it, though.





I hope you make the right decision. And you'll meet plenty of new guys in Chicago, you'll think you were stupid for crushing on this guy in high school a couple of years later.





Good luck! :)
Dang...are you willing to give up your friendship if things don't come through? Are you willing to try out a long-distant relationship if you do last? Think things over first. I mean you have about 7 months of school left so go for it! I mean you might not last 7 months and those 7 months you wasted trying to get over him you coulda been with him. So do you have any idea if he likes you? Flirt with him. If you guys really are best friends and all, trust him and trust that he will understand if you like him. Tell him ';I know I want our friendship to last , but I thiink I'm falling for you. I wanted to let you know because I don't want to wonder the rest of my life what we could've been.'; Only tell him this when you think he has some feelings for you.





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You need to talk about it say that you love him so much and you want a future with him.


Be a little careful because you've both been friends for really long. Before you tell him, observe him. Does he slightly like you? Because after being friends for so long,it may be difficult,for him to accept even if he does like you. But she may like you as a friend only.


So go tell him. No point hiding it from him,whichever way you feel comfortable, you have to confront him. He may take a few days to get okay with you,they will be some anger.but soon he;ll be friends again, but if it doesn't work out.then tell him you just wanna be friends again. Don't take a wrong step it may spoil your relationship forever.


BE VERY CARFUL. Take it from someone who has experience. You don't want to screw up your relationship. You may want to wait and make sure that he's showing signs of liking you back. If he talks to you about his crush that's not you then back off. Wait untill he's ready and SINGLE! If she stops being friends with you then that's his problem. If he says ';no'; don't get discouraged. There are more fish in the sea!
i say tell him, if u guys are thaaaat good of friends it wont ruin it just like that. You cant help who you fall for, and u definitley dont wanna regret it 10 years from now that you didnt tell him. How do u know he dosent like you too but has also been holding it in? I know hes definitely thought something of you in that way. Really though, tell him how you feel. Life goes by veeeerry quickly and u dont wanna regret looking back to ur high school days thinking '; maan..i rly shouldve told him.'; ya know?


Good luck with everything, hope it works out for the best! (:








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Would you please stop being a worry wart and ask him out already. If he's a friend then he's not going to bite. He's going to be flattered and if he isn't seeing anyone seriously, and being best friends you would know, then why wouldn't he want to date and see what develops between the two of you.





Maybe you could somehow strain or ruin your friendship, but for that to happen one or both of you would have to become almost instantly develop different personalities. And how likely is that to happen, and wouldn't you both be on guard for that and talk honestly about any such difficulties that emerge?





What's the big deal about going to different schools? Chicago and New York are great towns, and I've heard people talking that there are bus and railroad stations and even airports in both of those cities. There's also this hip device called the internet and computers with cameras so you can see one another, but I'm sure that's just a fad that will fade by next fall.





Come on. Lady up, and tell him how you feel in twenty-five words or less (I don't want him falling asleep on you) and then you'll just have to wing it from there.





Do you know what the first words out of his mouth are going to be? Well, neither do I. But I bet he says ';I feel the same way. Why did you wait so long to tell me?'; and deep down I think you know that too. You're just scared, and you need to set that fear aside and give it your best shot.





There is no dilemma. Tell him how you feel. He can handle the truth and so can you.





Good luck kid.
Ask. I was in a situation in high school last year where I became friends with this really attractive and really popular girl senior year (i was not the latter). We talked like every day and I think she knew I liked her. I thought she would never like me though, cuz she can get anyone she wanted. I ended up not asking her out to prom. I then met up with her again before we headed off to college (we are going to different schools) and asked her if she liked me just for fun........ she did and told me she wanted me to ask her to prom. She ended up getting in an abusive relationship because of my cowardness to ask her out. THE MORAL: Never leave anything unsaid or undone.
we can all ways thank of problems to talk our selves out of acting on feelings we have and the truth is we can never be sure what the future will bring. is it better to try and loose or to never try at all? both ways we loose. whats wrong with being happy even if the time is short. at least we have a good memory to look back on. best friends of the opposite sex never last. for as soon as we find our like partner they become our best friend and we must push away the Friend we grew up with. in the next few years you will go though many changes live them and move forward