Please help, its urgent. I need the best of advice, i will give ten points.?

there is this guy i really like, i just met him about two weeks ago,


but he goes to my school and he always hangs out with me.


So i have got to no him very well.. He has told people he has


liked me, and he is ALWAYS with me, always hanging out


with him now. He does not know i know he likes me though.


But i have never felt this feeling before, i can't get him off of


my mind or anything, and when i think about him my heart


honestly feels like its going to beat out of my chest !


The thing is.. lately i have been saying negative stuff to him,


like telling him to go away, and i have had enough of him.


But i haven't and i don't want him to go away.. Everytime i say that to him, he goes away for like two seconds then comes back, when i tell him i have had enough of him he always


says ';nahh you haven't.';


Why am i saying these negative things?


I have no idea why.Please help, its urgent. I need the best of advice, i will give ten points.?
It sounds like maybe subconciously you are just so nervous and hesitant for anything to actually happen. If you've never felt this particular way before, you are most likely, deep down scared of going any further b/c of things like: ';what happens if things don't work out,';...my advice, he seems to really like you. Decide what you want from him, a friendship or a relationship. Whichever you decide, go for it, and tell him how you feel. If you don't tell him already, your subconcious fears may keep sabatoging you. Good Luck. :-)Please help, its urgent. I need the best of advice, i will give ten points.?
mabye playing hard to get and you dont know it?


or you said that you think about him alot... mabye your tired of thinking of him...





well... this happened to me.... i thought about him too much, like i had many daydreams with him in it and stuff... and i just got kinda tired of just thinking about it and i wanted to see it happen in real life...





mabye i helped, mabye i didnt... i tried :(


hope it works out
its called hormones
awh he really likes you, %26amp; you really like him and you didnt think that you would ever feel this way about him, did you?? Before you were told he liked you I bet you were fine around him and now your getting the butterflys in your belly, are'nt you,


Its because your starting to really feel for him the way he feels for you, and thats a great feeling. your afraid to let him no how you feel thats why you keep being nasty to him, just relax, and give it a chance.....





If you still cant get him of your mind after a few more days let him no how you feel or when the time is right just kiss him and walk away and see what he does.





You say that when you tell him to go away he wont thats because he sounds like a sweet kinda bloke %26amp; he doesnt want to be away frm you, Give him a chance especially if your feeling like this.





I hope I was some help, Give him a chance and dont be afraid of the feelings your having just let them go with you, and enjoy them...because love is the best feeling in the World, Id love to have that feeling in me right now. lol
u know he likes u and u only no him for 2 weeks ur just freaked out
You're just confused about the way you're feeling coz you've never felt like it before... maybe you're afraid to tell him how you feel because you've gotten to know him.. i think you jsut need to tell him honestly how you feel and that way you might be able to start to show him how you really feel and not be so negative towards him :)
Maybe you are afraid of the fact that you finally found the right person to be with. You also could be afraid of how good this relationship is.
because you never had does fillings, and now you do your trying to hide them by telling him negative stuff, but dont worry maybe he dosent know that you know he likes you but now he knows that you like him by telling him does negative stuff and he comes back in 2sec. when your confterble one day tell him your fillings and he will open up to you too....
Seems like he's making you nervous and you don't want him to see that he drives you crazy... since he's doing such a good job to hide his feelings from you. Looks like you guys are playing the who can hide their emotions better game. I think he wants you to know he likes you and he's doing it by telling your friends cause he knows it'll get back to you. He probably wants to see if you'll tell them something he wants to hear. By you suddenly acting this way I think you gave yourself away allready that's why he's saying ';nahh you haven't.';
Your probably not sure if he's right for you.


But i can tell you really like him, at least he sticks around even though u tell him those things.
calm down....


take a deep breath.


you're saying these because you might not be ready for a relationship or that your last one ended badly. bite your tongue when you want to say something negative, and just don't say anything at all. if the need persists, ask your self what you don't like about him (thats probobly why you want to say negative things all the time.)
because you know something he doesnt or does he know you know. just get it over with and ask him out then its a smooth sail.
your just gettin to far ahead of ur self..... ur thinkin about what will happen of u guys do start datin and how long u guys will last....just calm down...and act normal or even maybe let him know u like him and i think that it will make u stop sayin that stuff if he knows u like him
first of all, STOP!


believe me, your just nervous around him, and panicking..


second of all, i've been in your situation, and i think we can pretty much say he definitely fancies you. so, your next step is to let him know you like him back, by going from 'friend' mode, to flirtation mode... this may be difficult, but little things, that others would only notice if they looked closely, like winking at him, or sending him a slightly flirtatious note in class. increase this slowly over the next few weeks, till its almost obvious. he will notice, trust me.


third and finally, if he does ever ask you out, be cool with it. agree and show him that you do actually like him, but don't, for the love of god, jump on him and scream it from the rooftops, even if he makes you want to.


good luck, and i hope it all goes well....


p.s. sorry about the god reference if you're christian...
It's because you kinda think he's annoying. He keeps coming back because he wants to be around YOU.
you like him but you are afraid of what others will say if you like him go for it but if you don't then tell him your not interested but you want to be friends. think on it
because maybe u just want his attention, or maybe you wanna know how he reacts just try not to because then you will lose him 4 ever n thats not good if you like him alot or love him
You're just freaking out at the idea of being with him. Calm down.
I went though that same thing when i was younger and really liked a guy but had been hurt so many times i was so afraid to let him get to close to me, so instead i would tell him to go away and then feel worse than ever bout it. I finally just told myself to go with my heart and i told him how i felt but also told him i had been hurt and wanted to take things slow and to have some time still to myself i hope this helps you
maybe you are going crazy over him
you're freaking out because the person you like is near you, and you aren't officially dating. Also maybe you need a bit of space.
its called love. your in denial of your feelings and cos he is a ugly guy your thoughts tell you that you will be laughed at by your friends.





Looks are nothing in this world, its the heart that holds the magic.





Give him a try and see.
you're scared because you both like each other. have u ever been in a relationship before? if not, this is probably why.
hm...well i think your scared... i think that your scared of what is happening to you....you just need to relax..and explain to him what's going on...if he likes you then you should tell him that you like him....he seems like a nice guy....you should tell him that all the negative things you have been saying to him aren't ture..because worst comes to worst you will say something and it will really hurt him...and he really won't come back to you...you need to confess to him...i think that's the best solution...if your to shy to tell him up front...then send him a text or a love note...





i hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!!!! i wish the best for both of you!!!!!!!!
Hey honey, its called true love. You haven't expressed it yet have you, and he hasn't either. So you know you want him but what's making you mad is that you haven't told him you love him and you guys just hang out but you don't hold hands or kiss or anything. I'm sure if you love him, you would want that, and you're not getting it so it's making you mad. You should somehow corner him somewhere and tell him you really like him and apologize for your negativity. That's all I can say sweetheart.
Maybe you're a little nervous about getting into a relationship with him. It could be because you haven't known him that long. Or if you've been in a bad relationship before, you may be a little scared that it might go bad again. On the other hand, it may be your way of flirting and that's the first thing that comes out of your mouth, instead of something a little more flirtatious (sadly, I still have some problems with that, luckily my boyfriend puts up with it lol). Good luck. :)
Even though you like this guy, it may be making you nervous and stressed out being around him. You aren't sure how to express your feelings about him to him, and that causes alot of stress. It's natural to try to avoid stress, so, you are trying to avoid him. I assume you are young (I'm 33)- . If you are young ( I assume he's around your age), don't worry. He is just as nervous as you are. He may not know how to effectively communicate with you either (guys tend to mature a lot more slowly than girls anyway). Relax, try to be yourself, have fun and try not to put too much thought into it. Let your friendship/relationship happen naturally. It's either meant to be or not. Once you relax, you'll enjoy being around him more and things will move more smoothly.
all guys are perverts just tell him u dont want a serious relationship
You are using reverse psychology to gauge his feelings for you, if you really like him STOP before you make him belive you. Try to set up some alone time with him make it semi romantic but not overwhelming and tell him how you feel, but keep it casual so he doesn't feel like he's hurting your feelings if he doesn't feel the same way..... Good luck
I think your just a little scared that something like this is happening. Stop phyching yourself out.
he wants to be around you just the same as you want to be around him. so just tell him how you feel and he will say how he fills about you