I just found out that my best friend is pregent shwewants to have an abortion any suggestions of advice?

It is her choice to make, but you could tell her she has other options. Ask her to think about giving the baby up for adoption. That would be the best gift she could give to her unborn child. There are so many couples out there that can't conceive and would love to adopt a newborn. If she does decide to have an abortion as a method of birth control tell her to have her tubes tied at the same time so she doesn't have to keep killing a baby every time she gets pregnant.I just found out that my best friend is pregent shwewants to have an abortion any suggestions of advice?
Please try to talk her out of it. It's dangerous, and there is always adoption. The way I think about it (not to be rude at all), if you have the responsibility to open your legs, then you have the responsibility to deal with being pregnant. If she don't want the baby, or she can't take care of it, there is always adoption. She will never forgive herself if she does it. Please tell her parents, boyfriend, or anyone else who can talk her out of it. Please don't let her go through it. Remind her that when you are far enough along to get one, the baby already has a heart, and can hear everything that goes on one the outside. Good luck to her!I just found out that my best friend is pregent shwewants to have an abortion any suggestions of advice?
If this is what she has decided then it is up to you to give her your support because what she has opted to do is not easy. She is going to need a lot of emotional support from all the people who love her.





Please tell her to do a lot of research on the Doctor's who do abortions first before she does it. She is going to a Doctor right???





If she is not. This procedure can be very dangerous she should go to a GOOD DOCTOR, one who specializes in this sort of thing. This Doctor may be expensive but think of it this way, what is the value that she would put on her life?





Good Luck and be careful!!!!
Every women has the right to do as they wish when it comes down to abortions, just try to get her to get counseling before she makes any major decision
Well thats a tough one.....you cant make the desicion for her all you can do is be supportive. If you are worried that she is making the wrong decision maybe you could help her look in to all of the possibilities and the affects of her choices. Help her to get the right information so she can make a good choice based on her needs. Remind her that there are a lof of options that she should look into before she makes a choice. Good Luck!
life begins at conception. she will be committing murder
bottom line no ones body but hers no ones biz. but hers no one has to deal with the consciences but her so let her make her own chose no one Else's place to judge only GODS
oh dear, please tell her not to have an abortion! how could you kill a helpless baby? i think she should keep the baby and put it up for adoption if she really does not want it. good luck, pray you'll find the awnser!
its murder. but if you can't stop her, then leave her alone. no need for your friendship to go sour because she's committing sin. she's going to do what she wants anyway. as long as you told her what she is doing is reliogously wrong, then your part is done. people make their own decisions.
It's her mistakes, her choices, and her life; therefore she has to decide what's best. But, before she make the decision, she should probably think about if it will effect her in a positive or negative way. Above all, it's her call, it's all the matter of what she thinks and NEEDS.
If she doesn't want it should give it up for adoption. Abortion is not the way to go, please. good luck
whatever she decides just remember she will have to live with that decision for the rest of her life and the baby's, but it is her decision no one elses, you can give an opinion, but make she knows it is up to her
Everyone I know that decided to have an abortion regrets it til this day. Even the would've been fathers. They talk about how old the child would've been, wonder if it was a boy or girl, they even name the baby and mourn their would've been birthday every year. And they get so emotional when they see or hold my baby. They always talk about the would've, should've...you know? It really sucks for them and it really is something you'd never forget. Think about it. I decided to have my baby knowing I would be a single mother because he didn't want a baby. I always told myself I would never do that to a baby-that I want them to have both parents. I must admit it has been kind of hard but I would never give her back. She is so great. She has revealed to me my purpose and motivated me to live life the best I can. She's my little boo boo.
tell her to do what she feels best. i wish i kept mine but it just depends on the situation. dont listen to the pro-life crap. its how the person feels not what other people feel. its her decision and she shouldnt be put down for her choice.
help her realize that her parents gave birth to her..they gave her life..she should do the same for her child..give it the opportunities that her parents gave her...abortion is just the easy way out..tell her to suck it up and have the child...she is the one that screwed around and got this way..she needs to give it up for adoption..good luck