Scared about what will happen next with my best friend. Advice, please?

For clarification purposes, I'm a guy and my best friend is a girl.





I've always been able to talk to my best friend a lot. When we were in high school it was obviously easier to see/talk to her. I'm a year older than her so when I went off to college, I thought it would be a little harder to keep in touch with her seeing I'd be around people our age all of the time. Well, she would call whenever she needed to talk and I'd be there. However, this summer (back at college for summer courses), I've noticed we're both having a hard time talking to each other on the phone because we're always out and catch each other at bad times. I've had this sour feeling that I'm going to completely lose touch with her and she is the very last person in my life I want to lose. I've told her this concern that if we're having trouble talking now, what will happen this fall when we're both at college. All she said was ';Let's just promise each other.'; It's easier said than done. Question follows...Scared about what will happen next with my best friend. Advice, please?
Me and my best friend for 10 years both got to different schools actually. It gets hard to keep in touch a lot because we're both so busy with new friends, homework, working, etc...





Though we have still managed to be friends after going 5 months without talking I guess in the end no matter what we were doing if any of us needed anything we're always there.


Being paranoid won't get you anywhere it might even make your situation worse.





The best advice I can give you is that you can't always control what happens in your life. If you're that close of friends than you'll always remain that close of friends. Whether you haven't talked in weeks or months. It's worked for me and mine friend If you're both willing you won't lose her no matter what life throws at ya!





Best of luckScared about what will happen next with my best friend. Advice, please?
In life sometimes we go our separate ways due to our life decisions at that moment but true friends always come back to each other. If she is too busy give her some time and space. You can always keep in touch by email. She can get back with you when she can. Be a good friend and be understanding and patient.
get cell phones and e-mail.Make sure you 2 have each other addresses.Around holidays see where she will be at maybe you 2 can see each other.As long as you 2 understand college can be stressful,and can lessen the phone calls and e-mails.As long as you 2 are best friends you 2 can go a whole yr without communication and still have that same bond.
E-mail.
Things sometimes change and we cannot stop it. It will be okay. You can be away from a friend for a little while and they will still be your friend. I have been separated from people for years and when we get back together it is as if we had never been apart.





College is a stressful time and if you are not at the same college studying the same things it will be difficult for you to stay in close touch during sessions. Try to meet up during holidays. It doesn't sound like much but it will work. Good luck.