If it happened toward the beginning of your relationship, then just forget about it. You and ur friend were drunk, not that it's an excuse for everything but it happened a long time ago. Don't tell him because he will be very mad at the fact that you waited sooo long to tell him. He would probably not have wanted you to tell him at at. So don't
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I'm a guy, and trust me. If you are seriously trying to keep this guy, I would NOT tell him. We are all animals and have certain instincts and urges, (especially when your drunk), and most every time even if he says he understands, he thinks lower of you and feels less special and lacks more desire to stay with you. lol that was a run on sentence i know. If it is really bothering you and you need to get it off your chest do it, but expect a change in the way he sees you.
Hiya love
well heres what i think,
I dont think you should tell him, you have been with him for 2 years
and u didnt tell him 2 years ago so why u questioning it now?
If you were going to tell him you would have done it 2 years ago.
Just be careful..
If somethng happened more recently then yes defo tell him as you your relationship will have changed now, more serious.
I hope i have been of help to you.
And btw if anyone ever tells u that being drunk isnt a excus tbh it is, u loose control of ur body and mind an u have no idea what ur doing (dependn how drunk u are of course)
hope i have helped u
XxxxX
Thats hectic! You shouldn't tell your boyfriend because he'll be very upset! And you might just lose him and i trust that after so long you wouldn't want that!
Leave it he won't know unless you tell him, and what he doesn't know will hurt him alot less than if he knew... But it kinda is cheating so you shouldn't do it again!
Good luck!
I'd probably be alright you were drunk but I probably would ask you not to drink with them again, and if you do I'd probably just leave you. I mean you can hang out with him But I suggest you don't drink with him, it could get you in deep stuff.
it was a long time ago. if you know nothing like that will ever happen again, don't tell him. what good will it do for him? it will only hurt him. so if you truly know that you will never ever cheat on him again, what's the point of telling him?
I wouldn't tell him, if i were you i'd keep that to yourself.
From a guys point of view, if you were my girlfriend I'd rather not know that. It was a one off, you were drunk, barely going out and it was 2 years ago. Keep it to yourself.
I wouldn't tell him if you don't want the relationship to end. He probably would break up with you unless the very close friend was a girl.
don't tell him cause then he'll probably breaking up with you.
keep it as long as you can.
i wish i would tell him but i think its a bad idea dont you think?
You said when you first started dating, just forget about it, ok it ent right to cheat but your thoughts and ideas on your relationship have probably changed now from what they were two years ago!
it depends on when it happened. you said it was when you guys first started dated so im guessing it was about 2 years ago. so you probably shouldnt tell him and forget about it
i would be honst who wants a gf that keeps secrets.. so i would tell him everything you were drunk and if he loved you he would stay with you and understand and if not find someone better
Well... you haven't told him so far so why bother threatening your relationship now? What he doesn't know wont hurt him and anyway there was no intercourse just a bit of finger fumbling. So... Shrug.
he fingered you thats it??? dont tell him nothing its not that serious.
whats the point in telling him.if you were both drunk forget it and dont let it happen again.
tell him 4 the truth or if h fins out on his own he will be angry honesty is the best policy
if you tell him its game over and make out hes bad mouthing you if he says anything cause you knocked him back
Do not tell him.
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